People don't want to live in relationships—they want to survive, or feel safe. Comfort zones, convenience, lies feel safer than truth. Known feels safer than unknown. Exposed to truth—new partner, honest vulnerability, real intimacy—they see threat to comfort, identity. Fight back. Fight truth, newness, beauty, now, life. Die a little. Hold inanimate routines. Dating stays superficial, safe. Real love demands risk, growth. Most choose stagnation over alive connection.

To live romantically is dangerous because living stuff can die. Illusion of safety: you won’t lose love, relationship lasts forever, has meaning. Even if ends, you’re “somewhere watching,” not dead. End of “everything” (your story) pushed aside, masked, discarded. Can’t plan future generations busy hiding. Can’t ask right questions amid safety fixes. Dating becomes endurance, not passion. Safe choices kill spark. Alive love confronts mortality, chooses anyway.

Comfort zones trap in mediocre partnerships. Lies preserve fragile ego. Known partner, patterns safer than unknown chemistry. Truth—your needs unmet, passion faded—threatens self-image. Fight change. Hold dead routines. Survive, never thrive. Real dating risks rejection, heartbreak for growth, depth. Most pick illusion over reality. Safety whispers “stay”; life screams “go.” Choose alive messy love over numb survival. Seven generations ahead demands bold risks now.

Stop right now, ask: does this relationship make me alive or surviving? Safety addiction blocks questions. Truth hurts but frees. Unknown partner, vulnerability risky but vibrant. Fight urge to hide. Embrace danger of real love. Die to old self; live fully. People cling inanimate; you choose living. Dating not endurance test—passion playground. Risk everything for alive connection. Legacy starts with one brave step into unknown. Safety forever; life now.